Open House: the Honor Code

The Honor Code: Unlocking Kingdom Favor

In a world where self-promotion, competition, and entitlement dominate the landscape, there is a kingdom key hidden in plain sight—honor. Honor isn’t just a cultural courtesy or an old-fashioned virtue; it is a spiritual force that unlocks the favor of God in our lives. It is the posture of heaven, the currency of kingdom relationships, and the secret ingredient that positions us for supernatural expansion.

If humility is the unfair advantage, then honor is its inseparable companion. Honor creates space for God to move, for relationships to flourish, and for the impossible to bow to divine authority.

The Kingdom Pattern of Honor

Throughout Scripture, honor is tied to victory, favor, and breakthrough. Gideon’s story in Judges 7 reveals a kingdom pattern—an army whittled down to 300 men, a battle plan that made no sense, and yet, a strategy infused with honor that led to total victory. Before stepping into the battle, Gideon’s men didn’t just shout for God; they also shouted for Gideon.

“For the Lord and for Gideon!” (Judges 7:20)

It’s a strange combination at first glance—why not just shout for God? But here’s the principle: honor doesn’t diminish God’s glory; it creates alignment for His power to flow. God had placed Gideon as the leader for that moment, and the people’s honor for him positioned them for victory. The kingdom advances when honor is present.

1. Honor Unlocks Favor

“God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” (1 Peter 5:5)

Honor and humility are inseparable. Just as humility invites divine favor, honor positions us to receive it. When we choose to honor those God has placed in our lives—leaders, mentors, family, and even those under our leadership—we open doors that would otherwise remain shut.

Gideon’s story teaches us that victory doesn’t come through numbers, strength, or strategy alone. It comes through alignment with kingdom principles. When we honor God, honor leadership, and honor those around us, we create an environment where favor flows freely.

2. Honor Breaks Strongholds

Isaiah 9 speaks of a great light breaking into the darkness and the yoke of oppression being shattered as in the day of Midian’s defeat. The same battle Gideon fought is referenced as a prophetic picture of Christ’s coming kingdom. In both instances, honor was a key factor in the breakthrough.

Jesus, the embodiment of the kingdom, faced resistance in His hometown. Why? Because there was no honor.

“A prophet is not without honor except in his own town, among his relatives, and in his own home.” (Mark 6:4)

Where honor is absent, the kingdom is hindered. But where honor is present, the miraculous takes place.

Consider your own life—are there areas where breakthrough feels blocked? Are there relationships where tension persists? Honor might just be the missing ingredient.

3. Honor Strengthens Relationships

True honor isn’t just lip service—it’s a way of living. It’s choosing to see the God-given value in others, even when they are difficult to love.

We honor above us (leaders and mentors).
We honor beside us (friends, colleagues, spouses).
We honor below us (those we lead, our children, our employees).

Honor doesn’t mean agreement—it means recognition. It means choosing to acknowledge and celebrate the gift and calling God has placed in another.

4. Honor Expands the Kingdom

Matthew 4 tells us that Jesus’ arrival marked the fulfillment of Isaiah 9—the light had come, the kingdom was at hand. But how does that kingdom expand? Through honor.

When a church is marked by honor, it thrives.
When a family is built on honor, it flourishes.
When a business operates with honor, it prospers.

The enemy always seeks to disrupt honor—through offense, competition, division. Why? Because honor builds trust, and trust builds momentum. A people marked by honor will experience kingdom expansion beyond their ability.

Living the Honor Code

So how do we cultivate honor in our daily lives?

  1. Speak life. Words carry weight. Choose to build up, encourage, and celebrate others publicly and privately.
  2. Defend dignity. Honor refuses to gossip, slander, or tear down. Be the one who protects the reputation of others.
  3. Submit with joy. Whether it’s leadership in church, work, or home, honoring those in authority positions us for favor.
  4. Recognize the gift in others. Honor isn’t about status; it’s about value. See people for who God made them to be.
  5. Lead with servanthood. Jesus, the King of Kings, honored His disciples by washing their feet. Greatness in the kingdom comes through serving.

The Challenge

What if we made honor our default posture? What if we silenced criticism and magnified encouragement? What if we became a people marked not just by talent or strategy, but by the way we honor one another?

Imagine what could be unlocked. Favor. Breakthrough. Miracles. Kingdom expansion.

Today, let’s choose to be people of honor. Because when we do, we won’t just experience victory—we’ll be part of a movement that ushers in the kingdom on earth as it is in heaven.

So, who can you honor today?


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